when you avoid addressing a problem you have with someone becox you dont want to ignite a disagreement, there is the problem for future disaster. not dealing with the situation leaves you feeling anxious and miserable. but majority of women doesnt like confrontation, becoz women tend to take things personally, they have a propensity to shy away from adversarial situations..hmmmm u know why?! women are good negotiators! lolx.
yeah, another thing..planning. it takes discipline to create a personal strategic plan, but without a plan it is impossible to know where you are going or when you have achieved your goals. so wat if u have a plan, it is easy to get sidetracked. this often occurs when the realities of life come crashing down around you, tempting u to do something becox you think its wat u should do rather than wat u really wanna do. however, life throws us a whole bunch of curveballs and if we dont have a plan, theres nothing we really can hold on to. my thoughts stopped here when my previous relationship ended. then my current so called boyfriend reminded mi that
i am actually letting events and circumstances controling my life..ok dunnoe whether it is right or wrong but i am gonna so something about it for sure. begin developing strategies to achieve my goal, make a lifetime plan? nooo, not so soon but most probably i'll plan wat i am gonna do for the next few months or years..make decisions that advance mi towards my goal but one step at a time..no hurry! my plan should be flexible, not written in concrete, keep an open mind when considering new opportunities. i dunnoe the key to success but the key to failure is trying to pls mi!! better throw away the key before it pisses mi! hahahahahahax
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